And even if you want to meet a good friend, you’d wonder if your boyfriend or husband would be okay with you meeting a friend. Chances are, you’re being tricked into submission by an insecure man.
One of the easiest ways to recognize an insecure man is by watching his behavior when you’re having a pleasant conversation with another man.
If a guy’s scared you’ll leave him, he’d do anything to manipulate you into staying.
[Read: Why does love hurt so much when it goes bad? Insecurity is a deep rooted issue that’s as unique as the guy.
But almost always insecurity is a trait that’s associated with men who have low self esteem.
Insecurity in your man can also make you antisocial and stunt your growth.
Before you know it, you’d start to avoid all your friends and spend all your time with him.
[Read: Signs to tell if he really is the right man for you] The problems of dating insecure men Insecure men are terribly jealous. In fact, they’ll make you feel like you’re being the bad one in the relationship.
They’ll behave like they’re sacrificing so much for your happiness, and load you up with guilt.And before you know it, your sweet and insecure man will learn to control your life by playing the part of the victim.And you’ll never even realize you’re being manipulated and arm twisted till you lose your old happy life and become a woman whose only ambition in life is to keep her man happy and make him feel proud of her.If your man doesn’t trust you or always seems suspicious of your behavior, there’s a good chance he’s got a lot of insecurity to deal with.Most insecure men can’t take criticism and they’ll do anything to put the blame on someone else than accept faults and change for the better.Almost all the time, you’ll just end up assuming that your boyfriend’s only trying to help you.